have you ever stopped liking somebody that you liked a lot and suddenly notice that they are a shitty person and realize how blinded you were by how much you liked them
Oh gosh, yes. I did many stupid things for acceptance and validation from someone who used me in the worst possible way (I allowed it), because I hated myself so much. I completely gave my power away. It took a couple of other human beings to wake me up and not emotionally enslave myself again. That’s partially why I hide myself now and fall in love with imaginary people…because they’re safe.